Family Unhappiness Of A Business Woman
Due to the growth of capitalist society the growing number of women is keen on building successful careers. But in practice, the great success is fraught with great problems in personal life. What are the reasons for family disturbances in the life of business women?
Each happy family should comply with two essential conditions: ensuring inner and outer interactions. Inner interactions include housekeeping on the one hand and maintaining family relationships, creating warm and family atmosphere among all family members on the other hand. Outer interactions imply the search for resources and solving strategic family issues, such as: accommodation, finances, etc.
Traditionally, the issues of outer interactions are the man’s sole prerogative. Women are usually entrusted with issues of inner interactions.
However, for business woman the balance of responsibilities within the family is upset. Primarily she focuses her attention on outer interactions and stops handling her inner family issues. This is the main reason of family disturbances of a business woman. The solution to a problem is simple. Just answer the question of who is going to take responsibility for inner issues of the family now?
The answer is obvious: a man. Indeed, if women become responsible for “men’s” functions, why don’t men take responsibility for “women” ones?
Not every man will accept and agree to this type of family. Since, in this case, there is a woman who will define family strategy and solve major issues of family budget. Moreover, the fulfillment of inner family functions requires certain qualities that are more typical for women and rarely observed with men.
All in all, a houseman is a special type of a person. And it is impossible to find this type among successful people (i.e. ambitious, active and energetic). This person has rather soft and amorphous personality.
What women are driven by while choosing a man? The answer is that whether a man is worth of sharing her personal and family life. And quite few women will be impressed with a soft and quiet houseman and consider him the deserved one of her life. Most of them would love to meet a strong and self-confident man.
No wonder that in real life there are not many families where partners switch their roles. And it is a good luck if they ever meet and make a family.
There won’t be a true family without a “woman” role and fulfilling her responsibilities!
That is why, such families hire a housewife: the house is in order and there is no need to quit working and making career. When children are born they hire baby sitter to solve the issue of looking after children while at work.
Often both partners resort to the help of outsourcing “professionals” for their marital intercourse fulfillment. If they can not find time for family they will hardly find time for spending it together either.
Hence, “free family” relations help solving the lack of a “woman role” in family, allocating all missing family functions to the outsourced professionals.
Quite often a business woman is either lacking the simple wisdom of choosing a right man or patience to reconcile herself to an existing one. As a result, typical contemporary families are created. Both partners are busy with their career. Each of them tries to become the head of family. It seems they try to share household responsibilities and everything at home seems to be in order. And there is no energy left for children who are often given to the first comer for taking care of them while parents are busy. Since there is no harmony among family spouses, both of them look for it outside, in lover’s beds.
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