Rich Person Means Strong-Willed Person!
How to develop your Will-Power
Is the desire to have money that strong that you are ready to start working on developing your will-power? Do you want a new car, a house with a pool or a new fur coat? Are you ready to change your mentality and work on nurturing your will-power for the sake of making your wished come true? Will-power is your golden key! Let us figure out, why…
The law of inborn laziness
Why am I born a woman? To support my husband, bring up and nurture children or communicate with relatives… Where to gain power for making career?
Very often we exaggerate the tasks that life sets forth to us and we feel the lack of personal will-power to fulfill them. It does not matter if you are a monk of a millionaire, a courier of a general manager – it is vital for each person to have will-power. The desire to achieve great financial results strongly requires possessing a great will-power!
Any person has a number of inner instincts, and, laziness is one of them. “A body persists its state of rest or of uniform motion unless acted upon by an external unbalanced force.” – is Newton’s first law that is often referred to as the law of inertia.
This law may describe some peculiarities of a human mind and mentality, and could be hypothetically termed the law of inborn laziness. A journey of thousand miles begins with a single step, which means that achieving great results requires making efforts towards the target goal, and the habit of laziness will not contribute to the success of it. Life helps us foster the ability to overcome the habit of laziness and make real moves to get started without postponing things for tomorrow, a week or a month…
Do you feel yourself alive? You may stand up, square your shoulders, smile and admit that you value and respect yourself, you love yourself and this world. It means you will have enough will-power to cope with difficulties for fulfilling the tasks! The one, who does not value oneself and has no confidence in one’s strength, may experience huge difficulties. Only a few people have the ability to concur inborn or sometimes habitual laziness in order to start cultivating positive abilities without finding thousand excuses for doing nothing. n ability to manage your will-power is the sign of your independence and freedom.
OUR INNER INSTINCTS
When you are drowning, the notion of “laziness” has no value for you and does not exist at all in this situation. In this case you act according to your instinct for survival! Each of us is motivated by different things: for some people it is morbid responsibility or dissatisfaction; for another’s, these are ambitions or vanity; offence or revenge; fear of future, fear of faults or shame. The simple hunger may also act as a motivation force. Motivation is necessary whatever torturous or unwanted it may be. The loss of desires will bring on the loss of possibilities, and then, the degradation will replace the process of evolution. Motivation is hardly to be developed yourself. But if you have the driving force in life, there is no need for will-power.
Will-power is necessary in case a person has no driving force that helps to live successful life. Unfortunately, for the majority of people it is harder (and more painful) to make themselves work hard and cope with difficulties than suffer from poverty. Certainly, after lounging around or watching TV the whole weekends, a person will suffer from fooling away time but the “pain” from experiencing self-discipline appears to be stronger. These painful feelings tend to come and go.
For instance, first you decide to study a foreign language, than you wish to go for a walk… You may wish to loose weight but suddenly decide to have a bite of a cake… The wish of quitting smoking is replaced by the desire to relax with a cigarette in a company of good friends… The reality is that one motivation goes in conflict with another one, and the worst thing is that our mind finds the best possible excuses for any action we take!
The will-power plays an important role in our lives since a person’s destiny depends on the stage of development of his or her will-power. Disregarding this fact means decreasing your possibilities to achieve success. The will-power is one of the major traits of a person. Everybody knows that cultivating the will-power is a thought process since, initially, it is the violence we commit to ourselves. We force ourselves to do things that we reluctant to do; or, on the contrary, refuse to do the desired. It is important to understand the nature of your personal will of power since it provides you with the freedom of feelings, desires and possibilities.
DEVELOPMENT OF WILL-POWER REQUIRES ITS INNITIAL AVAILABILITY
Everyday life provides us with unlimited possibilities for self-perfection. Every morning we are awaken by the sound of alarm clock which for many people is already the trial for their will of power. For instance, in the morning, my brain rejects to accept any logic arguments for being late for work. Only after I ask myself: “Do I have any will-power?”, I gain the energy to get out of bed. During the whole day we face the situations where we need to deicide on whether or not to do certain things, where and when to get them started. Very often we compromise, taking the decision that is easy to realize rather that the ones we really need to make! Let’s fairly admit that this is the way it usually happens! And here, we should strain our will-power, make ourselves think and do things. Nobody will make you do things that you need to do. You will always have to strain your will-power to live your own life and head in the right direction rather than going with the stream. Will-power can be compared to mussels: the more you strain your will-power the stronger and sturdy it will be. After your will-power is strained enough the discomfort from frequent usage of it will disappear. Moreover you will see your life starting to change for the better!
There are two basic principles for the development of will-power.
First principle states that occasionally, we drive ourselves into a corner and than search for the ways out of it with all our might. Many people are ready to pay money for having them make efforts. Here is the reason for persisting demand in personal physiological training courses. Wise people say that a person is not able to make efforts that could lead him or her for changing mentality or achieving great financial results. That is why, each of us (consciously or unconsciously) search for a mentor and then find themselves in situations which place our lives in the balance. Only these situations may add to our true growth and development.
The second principle of will-power development resembles spontaneous combustion that is acknowledged by physicists as a very mysterious phenomenon in which a substance unexpectedly bursts into flame without the need for an external high-temperature energy source. Only a touch of a lighted match is enough to start the fire. It is important to understand the mystery of this phenomenon - releasing a very small amount of energy you may receive a thousand times more! The same is true with will-power! Having set a goal, you should do at least a small effort, a little step, towards fulfilling it. Gradually, the process starts evolving and you will have to involve yourself in it more and more. The task (partners, responsibility and money) will make you become more disciplined and you will have to devote much energy and efforts to it. Business people regard this process to as “creating a motion” and later on you will find yourself in the vortex of events having nothing but to work on the task that will become only natural for you.
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